Wrangling Difficult Customers & Employees

Horses are the pulse and heartbeat of any working ranch, training stable or boarding facility, but without customers to pay the bills and employees to care for the horses, any legitimate barn would cease to function. Luckily, the majority of customers are a pleasure to work with, and most barn employees are hardworking people, but sometimes a rotten apple in the bunch will chaff your skin like a burr on a saddle pad or tempt you to paw the ground and stomp your foot. Before you react negatively consider the following:
Take a Lesson From Your Horse-Be Fair but Firm
If you have ever watched a group of horses in a pasture or a mare with her foal, then you know horses are honest, fair and firm with their communication. There is no beating around the bush, no lying to spare feelings and if there is any sneaky behavior (such as a yearling colt trying to sneak a bite of his older, wiser pasture mates grain) the consequences are dealt swiftly and directly with a well placed nip or kick. While I’m not suggesting we bring these exact measures into our customer/employee relationships, there is a kernel of wisdom we can take away from our equine friends.
Be honest with your customers and employees and be very clear with your expectations – invoices are due on time, be on time for lessons, work is to be completed thoroughly and on time, etc. When voicing these expectations there is no need to be rude – just be honest. “It is important for Jennifer to be here on time for her lessons because we have several lessons booked after her and want to give everyone the time they need and deserve.” A statement like this is hard to take personally and it is fair yet firm.
Kill Them With Kindness or Sugar Cubes
Some people will always choose to be difficult no matter how you treat them, but many a challenging person (and horse) has been won over with kindness and their temperament sweetened with a little bit of sugar. Practice kindness with your customers and employees, with zero expectations that they return the favor and I guarantee you will see results. Keep in mind kindness does not equal weakness. Do not be so nice that you let others walk all over you, but rather meet negativity consistently with kindness, and go out of your way to help your clients and employees. When they see your sincerity they will respect you and want to return the favor.

Knowing When to Say Neigh
I once had a friend who managed a hunter/jumper barn that mainly catered to the higher income level horse owner. Full board was $800-$1,000/month and included a stall with daily turnout, feed, lessons, training, etc. She managed both the stable and the books and had one client in particular who was consistently late with her monthly board payment. At first she gave her the benefit of the doubt and allowed the customer extra time to get caught up, but the customer grew increasingly late each month and attempts to collect the money were often met with anger and frustration. My friend had a meeting with the owners to decide a course of action. The decision – to communicate to the client that her behavior was unacceptable and advise her of less expensive options in the area. There were roughly three other barns in the area that were not quite as upscale but still nice – with quality staff. Conversations like this in business are difficult but often necessary and my friend was running a business that had set prices based on the quality of the facility. It was unfair to the other clients as well as poor business to have a client who was not paying their bills.
The conversation went better than expected and my friend not only collected the remaining amount owed, but we helped transport the client’s horse to a new facility – free of charge as a courtesy. In the end she helped her business and the client as well.
Some stable owners make the mistake of taking any client they can get. This isn’t always a wise choice. A client that is a poor fit for your facility may be taking up a spot that could be used for a person who could be a great fit. Likewise, in some cases you may be doing the client a disservice if there is another option in the area that would be a better fit for them. Know how to recognize when something isn’t working out and take action. Make sure you are always respectful to clients or employees that are not a good fit and make an effort to help transition them. This will go a long way towards your reputation in the community and the industry itself.
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